I’ve been on both sides of this argument. My parents sent me to college hoping I would not have to work in the steel mill like my dad did for 50 years (he was a lineman).
I got three degrees in six years of college. When I came out, I was recruited by two fortune 50 companies. Took a job with one of them and stayed for 10 years. I earned my fourth degree taking classes at night. At the end of the ten years (1989), I left them making over $200k a year.
During that 10-year stint, I never looked down on a tradesman. I always admired them. They were the builders of things. They worked to make things work. I wanted to build things.
When I left, my dad thought I was nuts. I also think he was a little embarrassed (sent his kid to college, only to have me go into construction). After 20 years, of running my own business, I think he finally saw that I was more than just a tradesman. I was a businessman in the trades. I was using what I learned in college and 10 years in the corporate world to elevate my trade and business.
It’s hard for me to think about not letting my daughters marry a tradesman. That just seems ridiculous to me. My oldest daughter is my business partner and a tradesman. She works side-by-side with me every day. I personally think there is a huge benefit for women in the trades – that’s a different topic we can discuss elsewhere.
Of my three kids, one got a college degree. The other two did a semester… quit and went to work. I believe there is a benefit to going to college, but I don’t see the benefit of a degree unless it’s in the sciences.
While the teachers have pushed kids into college, there is a generation of us that helped this along. My degrees were worth a lot of money. Hence, I thought my kids should follow in my footsteps (I pushed my oldest into college). I didn’t see the world changing in front of me at the time. My attitude changed drastically when it came time for the two younger ones to go to college.
When it came time for the two younger ones, I believed they should have the college experience/opportunity. If they decided on the sciences, I would have told them to stay with it. If they decided-on pursuing a degree in animal masturbation, they would have to go it alone.
The trades are in serious trouble. We’re a dying breed. I don’t see it turning around soon or quickly.