I'm interested in hearing more about these products. I went to a wedi seminar and wasn't very impressed with their cubless option due to the height requirement....and the instructor was more salesman than technical so perhaps that put me off of their products.
In this particular instance though TUFF form seemed like the only viable option because the joists were 2x8, which, as shown in the rough in picture, is just barely enough to get a 2" P-trap under the shower. All the other products seemed to have the drain connection lower than the top of the joists (not saying they couldn't work, just that it was too close to call for a special order) or caused excessive floor height problems.
As for the PVC/ABS, the plumbing was done by a licensed plumber contracted by the homeowner. I asked about this same thing, but apparently it is very commonly accepted to use the transition glues here because all of our plumbing is ABS, yet a lot of the specialized shower bases/kits come from the US with only PVC fittings. Code wise, it's up to the inspectors interpretation of "plumbing system" as it's allowed under the code here to use transition solvents when connecting one "plumbing system" to another "plumbing system"...the definition of "plumbing system" is pretty loose as I read it though.
Interesting/troubling issue with capillary action of the tile though in your situation. Perhaps we dodged a bullet by using a schluter edge trim transitioning from penny tile to floor tile and it has acted as a capillary break. We used Spectralock epoxy grout for the floor and all tile was porcelain. I doubt it would even be noticed though as the grout is black to begin with.