Your best bet would be to get a plumber around and check that out. I have never heard of having to raise a hot water cylinder of the ground by that much if at all and your temp/pressure relief should really be piped to where it cant burn anyone if it's goes off. We used to pipe them through an external wall and use a return elbow and point the pipe back toward the wall so that if there was ever a issue you would see the water coming from it and no one would get burnt from heated water.