hi been lurking for a few weeks im a remodeling contractor in nj ny area. iwanted to get input on recent event. gave customer rough est on large remodeling project 100k+ we are still months from closing deal. to the point customer wants to visit current job site/s and wants references names and addresses of like our last 50 jobs .customer also seems to think he going handle key parts of job ie. supply subs materials. im leaning torwards walking . we normally give 1 to3 ref if cust is ready to sign .