Well, I guess it's time for me to weigh in. Big website. Lots of variety here. In skill level, experience, intelligence, English fluency, where we came from and what we had to go through to get where we are, etc; As well as in our personality types.
I am new here, so not completely familiar with everyone just yet.
I have enjoyed translating tipitop's posts, as well as the light hearted and usually humorous ribbing they engender. But man, this one was rough. We could probably do a little better than this if we tried.
Your words are extremely powerful. They can tear down, or they can build up. I thought this was a place to help build each other up. If that is true, the tone of our replies can either help or hinder us in achieving that goal. You can be right, but wrong, at the top of your voice. I can't think of a situation where calling someone a joke will edify them or anyone else at all. Sounds like high school on this thread. Which is fine, just depending on what the point is of our community.
Personally, I am a fan of HELPING those less fortunate. There are many ways of doing this.
Calling B.S. for what it is can be helpful.
Sandwiching CONSTRUCTIVE criticism between encouragement is another. ( and usually goes a long way in helping your criticism be received.)
Sound advice is helpful.
Referring someone to proper resources is helpful.
But bashing, name calling, tearing down only without offering solutions, tit for tat exchanges don't really help anybody. It does make one think twice before posting, which might be viewed by some as helpful. Personally, I enjoy the entertaining responses to the more basic questions, and the light hearted ribbing makes me smile.
I joined this forum mainly for entertainment anyways. It was only after reading through so many of the articles that I realized just how much I had yet to learn.
As quoted from one ancient text:
" any man who thinks he knows something knows nothing yet as he ought to know."
And this coming from a self titled Construction DR.
Alright. Rant over. For now.
Can't we all just get along?
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