Ipe is not all that great a wood for bending,white/red oak are a lot better. Its the inter locked grain, ipe is never cvg, that makes for the challenge.
I dont try to bend 2x4s all my stuff is done with laminations. The fabric softner acts as a, the spelling will be wrong but thats normal with me,sur fur gent,( Surfactant Thanks Neo!!) in other words it helps change the shape of the wood cells.A steam chamber will make the wood soft enough but the stress is still there.
The hand irons are a handy heat source,the pre form can be made in a lot of ways, use a spray bottle with a mixture of softener and water,soak a cotton towel rip,press it on to the wood placed over the pre form with the irons cranked up to high. Go Slowley your not killing snakes it takes time. The thickness of the lams depends on how radical your radias is and if its inside or outside.
Many clamps are involved.
I like TB 111 for a lot of things it sets up fast , is easy to work with, and makes a pretty good water tight joint but if I really want to get at it I use these guys stuff>>>
www.cpadhesive.com they make some bad ass polly glue. The thing with the common polly glue is they are thined down so your basic diy er can work with it. That stuff is heavey bodied and has a slight learning curve. OK a big learning curve but man does it work. Epoxie is deffentley out none of them have the holding power or the water proof bond this stuff has.
Several pinners/ small crown staplers can be used to tact the lams to the form and each other before the clamps go on this helps a lot with the set up time of the glue then clamp the outside lam on the outside with no fasteners.
I built an outside table top using 1/4'' ipe lams built up to 20 inches across in an S pattern this way it was for the Lady tax lawyer that keeps the irs off me,a wedding present, so you know I took no gamble on it coming apart.
There is the babey sit factor. Leave the clamps on for a week or so,keep filling the little gaps with the ipe sawdust you collect from the rough orbital sanding and TB111 yes the two will work together this way,Do Not Use A Belt Sander, keep up the babey sitting until the surface is flat and 0 little gaps. Joy's present took 2 months on and off working it. I took it down to 220 grit this is basicly glazing the surface. Hand rub twp 116 into it until I got a simi gloss this took another two weeks or so.
Defentley not a job for the wham bamm thank you mam kind of project.