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Old 12-29-2018, 02:16 PM   #1
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So, a divorced Dad was just told by his 6yo daughter that his ex's bf is molesting her when he gives her a bath. The ex says he doesn't give her a bath, but he is alone with her all day Saturday. He just wouldn't do something like that...

Kentucky cps wouldn't investigate, since it's happening in Georgia. Due to the holidays, nothing happens until next week. Dad's losing his mind...
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Old 12-29-2018, 02:58 PM   #2
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So, a divorced Dad was just told by his 6yo daughter that his ex's bf is molesting her when he gives her a bath. The ex says he doesn't give her a bath, but he is alone with her all day Saturday. He just wouldn't do something like that...

Kentucky cps wouldn't investigate, since it's happening in Georgia. Due to the holidays, nothing happens until next week. Dad's losing his mind...
6 year olds don't need anyone to give them a bath. I'd be driving down there myself and taking care of things.

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6 year olds don't need anyone to give them a bath. I'd be driving down there myself and taking care of things.
Her Dad would like to do that, but he's trying to go the legal rout.

Meanwhile, it looks like the ex is taking the girl to Alabama to avoid the Georgia investigation.
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That is nuts. Best of luck.

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He'll need it. The ex is pretty loopy. Somehow one of her boyfriends got the idea he should go kill the Dad with a knife. Shows up ar the Dad's garage, pulls a knife, says he's going to kill him. Bad move, he spent a week in ICU.

I'm betting the ex didn't tell her bf that the Dad's first combat kill was hand to hand against an afghani with a knife.

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He'll need it. The ex is pretty loopy. Somehow one of her boyfriends got the idea he should go kill the Dad with a knife. Shows up ar the Dad's garage, pulls a knife, says he's going to kill him. Bad move, he spent a week in ICU.

I'm betting the ex didn't tell her bf that the Dad's first combat kill was hand to hand against an afghani with a knife.


I love stupid criminal/instant karma stories.


But I do hate the topic of the thread.

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I love stupid criminal/instant karma stories.


But I do hate the topic of the thread.

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Her Dad would like to do that, but he's trying to go the legal rout.

Meanwhile, it looks like the ex is taking the girl to Alabama to avoid the Georgia investigation.
If he's a buddy of yours, stress everything you can for him to keep his cool and do the legal route. I don't know that I could, but it's the right way in the long run.

I have a little girl who's 5-1/2. I know I'd need all the help I could get to hold it together.

Remind him that he needs to look towards long term psychological health of his daughter. Even if this goes on for 18 months, it is much better than him being behind bars for 18 years. If he does something for imminent justice (which is totally understandable) he cannot protect her afterward. He needs to be there to help her work through a really ****ed up situation.

Sure it'd feel good to kill the guy, and I can't say I wouldn't do it, because I probably would... But I hope that I would have enough good people around me that I'm supposed to be here for the Long haul of teaching my kid instead of the short haul of retribution.

God speed, H. That's a tough one.
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Mother ****er is as good as dead if it were my daughter.


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My gf was pretty much his Mom at one time, so she's doing the listening and coaching. Unfortunately, I'm having to bring a little reality in. He won't get custody, because all she has to say is she didn't know.

I give good advice, but I may not follow it in the same situation.
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My gf was pretty much his Mom at one time, so she's doing the listening and coaching. Unfortunately, I'm having to bring a little reality in. He won't get custody, because all she has to say is she didn't know.

I give good advice, but I may not follow it in the same situation.
But hopefully at least the creep would be removed from the living situation...

Ugh...
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Taking a child across state lines for the purpose of sexual exploitation makes it a federal crime.

The dad should CALL the FBI office close to him and report it IMMEDIATELY.

If the mother flees to Georgia, that is another crime. I would also call the local news station. Nothing like shining a little light on something to get action.
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But hopefully at least the creep would be removed from the living situation...

Ugh...
Emergency hearing. The bf can have no contact.
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Taking a child across state lines for the purpose of sexual exploitation makes it a federal crime.

The dad should CALL the FBI office close to him and report it IMMEDIATELY.

If the mother flees to Georgia, that is another crime. I would also call the local news station. Nothing like shining a little light on something to get action.
Thanks, this is useful.
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I would imagine Mommy is busy rehearsing with the little girl with what to say.
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People like this just make me sick. Hopefully there is a positive outcome to this. I have an ex brotherinlaw that was taking showers with my two nieces when they where that age or just a little older, CPS never did a thing about it. It did stop though, still don't care to be around him to this day.
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I would imagine Mommy is busy rehearsing with the little girl with what to say.
At the hand off Saturdayday, she started right in on the girl "What did daddy make you say?" It will get much worse for her from here. I told my gf the girl will crack under the pressure, and tell whatever the Mom wants.

Mom will say and do anything to get what she wants..
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People like this just make me sick. Hopefully there is a positive outcome to this. I have an ex brotherinlaw that was taking showers with my two nieces when they where that age or just a little older, CPS never did a thing about it. It did stop though, still don't care to be around him to this day.
As you know, there is never really a positive outcome, but trauma can be minimized and counseling can deal with a lot. It can't be erased.

The best outcome would be for Dad to have custody, but Mom's always have the priority.

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