Welp, No Job For Me Anymore

tgeb · 10-28-2009, 08:11 PM

I would not burn this bridge just yet. It could be as stated above, there is just not enough work/$ on this job to support you and him, so he throws you overboard to lighten the ship so he can stay afloat.

Let him know your disappointed and expected to work through the Winter, but also let him know that you need work and need to keep your bills paid.

If work picks up for him, or if something comes along that he is not interested in or can't get to, make sure he will want to call you. His situation can turn on a dime and you don't want to be out of the picture, no matter how mad you are right now.

Stick with it, you got 2 arms and legs that work, still have a roof over your head. Don't let this get you too down.

Mellison · 10-28-2009, 08:12 PM

Tell him his wife is a whore.

tuffplay · 10-28-2009, 08:13 PM

I feel your pain man, I own a small company out here in Tallahassee, I put an ad on Craigslist for $8.00 an hour because I needed help, I got 60 calls in 45min. I had guys that were general contractors, and skilled craftsmen willing to work because the economy is so bad. Good luck on the job search.

tgeb · 10-28-2009, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Mellison

Tell him his wife is a whore.

LMAO

**rselectric1** · 10-28-2009, 08:17 PM

Hang in there! If you are good at your work and are ambitious, things have a way of working themselves out. I've been there lot's of times.

In a couple months, you might be the one with all the work while we are all venting about having none.

I obviously don't know the whole story as it must be on another thread. But it sounds like you are going through a period that will in the end make you much stronger.

Keep your chin up bro.

PS-as tempting as it is, dont tell him off. Burning bridges is never a good idea.

Darwin · 10-28-2009, 08:26 PM

Listen. You work with your hands. Everyone can't do it. You will always find work if you have any hustle in you.

Kinda like getting kicked out the parent's house. It's a little terrifying, but
survival instincts will kick in. The stomach will get hungry. Then you will go out and get it for your family -- by handy means necessary!

Come up with a Master Plan. Then move on it, and move foward!

Good Luck to you and your family.

Ebbo · 10-28-2009, 08:26 PM

If he winds up screwing you over you can always take out a Craigslist ad under men looking for men and post his phone number there.

freemason21 · 10-28-2009, 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by tgeb

I would not burn this bridge just yet. It could be as stated above, there is just not enough work/$ on this job to support you and him, so he throws you overboard to lighten the ship so he can stay afloat.

Let him know your disappointed and expected to work through the Winter, but also let him know that you need work and need to keep your bills paid.

If work picks up for him, or if something comes along that he is not interested in or can't get to, make sure he will want to call you. His situation can turn on a dime and you don't want to be out of the picture, no matter how mad you are right now.

Stick with it, you got 2 arms and legs that work, still have a roof over your head. Don't let this get you too down.

i remember him saying something about their budget (the ho) being pretty scarce for right now. whatever the case is im not working. ill probably just take my tools, get my pay and leave. i've calmed down a little bit and realized its not worth getting into a womany argument over it. its not gonna give me a job just get me even more angrier. i hated working for him anyway and i was probably gonna quit once my last boss called me.

Tom Struble · 10-28-2009, 09:14 PM

so your collecting and you were getting paid cash

mikec · 10-28-2009, 09:50 PM

Where in Mass are you?

wellbuilthome · 10-28-2009, 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Ebbo

If he winds up screwing you over you can always take out a Craigslist ad under men looking for men and post his phone number there.

Thats funny !

Tom R · 10-28-2009, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by freemason21

it was monday, i hadnt gotten to sleep until 2am

Teachable moment.

Hourly pay is based on being fully awake.

Shame about your Mom, but not his problem.

Good luck next time.

Willie T · 10-28-2009, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by freemason21

nope, he paid me cash. i've still been able to collect from the last job i had that was on the books. its running out in the next month i think. to be completely honest i was probably going to quit once the last guy i worked for picked up again. this dude is a prick and has a serious attitude problem. i have no future plans of ever speaking to him again or working for him. he's gonna know just how i feel tomorrow and i cant wait.

Let's see......... You're lying to the government about having gotten a job, so you can keep collecting undeserved unemployment.
You paying any taxes on this cash you been getting?
You admit you were going to screw this guy by quitting on him anyway.

Yep, it sure sounds like the world is picking on you when all you do is try to be good and right, and work your ass off.

Or did I read you words wrong?

IHI · 10-28-2009, 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by ampman

he may have had work thru the winter but like zinsco said work can vanish without a trace with no fault of the bosses put yourself in your bosses shoes--as a business owner i get paid first no offense

That's why i'll never be filthy rich...i make sure the help gets paid first, personally i like the security of being able to pick up the phone and knowing hands are willing to drop what they're doing when i call to bail me out. I've read far too many stories, heard from buddies far too many times getting screwed over out of their money, i've been on that end back when i was a sub...so i've always taken great pride in being the guy that other's can truely count on...does'nt always leave me in the best financial state, but word spreads too fast round here bout bad GC's and who NOT to work for/deal with.

freemason21 · 10-28-2009, 10:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Willie T

Let's see......... You're lying to the government about having gotten a job, so you can keep collecting undeserved unemployment.
You paying any taxes on this cash you been getting?
You admit you were going to screw this guy by quitting on him anyway.

Yep, it sure sounds like the world is picking on you when all you do is try to be good and right, and work your ass off.

Or did I read you words wrong?

dont give me this crap about taxes. yeah the unemployment thing isnt the "right" thing to do, but i got a mortgage and bills to pay and ill pay them anyway i can short of selling drugs which right now sounds like a pretty good option. maybe im in over my head with bills and a mortgage but i cant lose this house and i'll do anything to pay it. if that means lying to the government who lies to us every single day then i'll do it. i wasnt going to quit on him with out talking to him and giving him a notice.

freemason21 · 10-28-2009, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by mikec

Where in Mass are you?

nvm.. pm'd

Willie T · 10-28-2009, 10:47 PM

Some guys believe the avatar you use means something.

ADDITIONAL EDIT: And from your PM to me, I think you do too. I just feel like perhaps you're forgetting it a little right now.

aaronwilliams12 · 10-28-2009, 11:46 PM

I feel bad about the job situation and wish you the best. Have you ever thought about doing some side jobs. I have a buddy who has been putting up "We roof house" signs on poles and has been getting the jobs and subbing them out making about $2k a roof. You might want to try it out. Good luck. Let me know how you make out. Just a suggestion. Hope it helps.

**rselectric1** · 10-29-2009, 12:26 AM

Freemason,
Please dont let your situation send you over the edge. I got a little "ired" too about the unemployment and cash thing, but I think the guys here mostly understand.

I think most the guys on this site are feeling for you now and have been there too.

But try to chill out a little. This really isn't the end of the world.

wizendwizard · 10-29-2009, 12:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rselectric1

Freemason,
Please dont let your situation send you over the edge. I got a little "ired" too about the unemployment and cash thing, but I think the guys here mostly understand.

I think most the guys on this site are feeling for you now and have been there too.

But try to chill out a little. This really isn't the end of the world.

I DID feel for him..... Up to the UC admission!

10-28-2009, 08:11 PM	#21
tgeb View Profile tgeb Contractor Send Message Follow Blogs (0) Threads (3,278) Photos (0) Reviews (0) Projects (0) Toolbox (0) View All Activity Contractor Trade: Excavation, Foundation, Concrete Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Maryland Posts: 3,278	Re: Welp, No Job For Me Anymore I would not burn this bridge just yet. It could be as stated above, there is just not enough work/$ on this job to support you and him, so he throws you overboard to lighten the ship so he can stay afloat. Let him know your disappointed and expected to work through the Winter, but also let him know that you need work and need to keep your bills paid. If work picks up for him, or if something comes along that he is not interested in or can't get to, make sure he will want to call you. His situation can turn on a dime and you don't want to be out of the picture, no matter how mad you are right now. Stick with it, you got 2 arms and legs that work, still have a roof over your head. Don't let this get you too down. __________________ Tom www.gebcon.com

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Willie T View Profile Willie T General Contractor Send Message Follow Blogs (0) Threads (2,653) Photos (0) Reviews (0) Projects (0) Toolbox (0) View All Activity General Contractor Trade: General Contractor Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: St. Petersburg, FL Minds of moderate caliber ordinarily condemn everything which is beyond their range. Posts: 2,653	Re: Welp, No Job For Me Anymore Some guys believe the avatar you use means something. ADDITIONAL EDIT: And from your PM to me, I think you do too. I just feel like perhaps you're forgetting it a little right now. __________________ "True eloquence consists in saying all that is necessary, and only that which is." François Duc de La Rochefoucauld Bill Everett - St. Petersburg, FL Last edited by Willie T; 10-28-2009 at 11:10 PM.

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