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Originally Posted by Mike Finley
Shopping around - also known as price shopping, shopping for the best price... etc...
What do :
Trustworthiness
Quality
Reliabilty
Experience
Customer Satisfaction
have to do with shopping - ie shopping around for price?
Everyone of those factors can be researched about a contractor without and estimate ever given, no costs attached to them, no prices even talked about!
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You seem to think that people have an endless supply of funds to spend on projects. They don't. That's why they
budget for them and try to find a contractor (or any product or service) that has enough of the qualities you list for what they can afford. To do that, they have to compare prices.
Do you go to the most reknown dentist in your area? The most reknown doctor? Do you drive the highest rated vehicle for trustworthiness, reliability, etc.? Do you only buy the best, highest rated tools, gas, food, wine, etc? When you vacation do you stay at the highest rated resorts and hotels?
Why not? Because you are a 'cheap ass?' No, it's because you have a BUDGET!
That's why some people drive Cadillacs and some drive Honda Accords. Because they have a BUDGET.
I may want the master craftsman in my area to build my new staircase b/c of his great reputation and quality of work, but I sure as hell won't know if his cost will fit within my budget unless I ask him for an estimate, will I? And if his price is outside my budget, then as much as I like his work, I'll get someone else to do the stairs because I need some freaking stairs that I can actually afford.
That doesn't make me a 'cheap ass price shopper,' (your words) it makes me a responsible person living within my (say it with me now)... BUDGET!
When people choose to spend money on one thing, they sacrafice the ability to spend it on another. It's irrational to belittle someone for wanting to save money on one thing, like a staircase, so they can also afford another thing, like food, or clothing, or fixing the car.
And, quite frankly, it is hypocritical for someone to criticize someone else for looking for the best price for a product or service when
they do it themselves.
Or are you going to tell me that every time you buy a vehicle you pay exactly what the car is listed at in the best dealership in town without comparing prices at other dealerships?
Are you going to tell me that when you purchased your home you didn't compare prices of similar homes, but instead just charged up to the finest home you could find and paid
full list price?
Do you really expect anyone to believe you've
never tried to negotiate a price on anything,
ever?
So if you negotiate prices for certain things, I don't comprehend why you seem to get so pissed at anyone else who wants to negotiate as well.
You need to mellow and accept the possibility that maybe when someone balks at your inital price, there is another reason besides that person being a 'cheap ass.' Maybe they'd like to afford you, but they can't - for reasons you have no way of knowing.
Or maybe they just don't think your quality, reputation, customer satisfaction, etc. is worth the price you are asking.